"For we know that if the tent that is our earthly home is destroyed, we have a building from God, a house not made with hands, eternal in the heavens. For in this tent we groan, longing to put on our heavenly dwelling, if indeed by putting it on[a] we may not be found naked. For while we are still in this tent, we groan, being burdened—not that we would be unclothed, but that we would be further clothed, so that what is mortal may be swallowed up by life. . . . Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation.[a] The old has passed away; behold, the new has come. 18 All this is from God, who through Christ reconciled us to himself and gave us the ministry of reconciliation; 19 that is, in Christ God was reconciling[b] the world to himself, not counting their trespasses against them, and entrusting to us the message of reconciliation."2 Corinthians 5:1-4, 17-19
God has created a specific place He has prepared especially for you. If you confess, you are given access to this place . . . and live this incredible life of reconciliation with Him. But remember, no one put your past upon you. It's yours and yours alone. So, there is some legwork you must do. Walk in repentance and be reconciled with Him. This is how you become an integral part of the ministry of reconciliation. Then you can intercede for others and assist in building others up!
But first, understand your position. If any man be in Christ you are a"new creation." No matter what, do not let anyone take you off your game. Do not create confusion or allow it into your life. Know that the enemy has no power over you. He tries to make you mess up. But residing in Christ means you cannot lose. Believe - know with certainty - that you have power. God has given you all power in every situation.
You loose when you allow doubt to creep in. Life is your training ground. When adversity comes, use the power of God for victory.
Ultimately, there is no failure in Christ.
Thank you Rev. Fred Lawrence